Monday 10 December 2012

Insecurities.


There is at times in a relationship, insecurities propped up. Reasons? Maybe below reasons from me may be the result to the insecurities.

  • Lesser time spent with each other
  • Less communication
  • Trust issues
  • Past experiences
  • Dislikes
  • Attitude
  • No mutual understanding
  • Involvement of other parties
Easier said than done. There is more to the list but it may be something unknown or noticed by me. :D

Will there be ways of avoiding all this? Or its always in a relationship?

Obviously, I want to avoid and everyone does, am i right? Okay. This would depend on individuals of course. Nonetheless, there is more questions in mind.

For all I can say, Love and to be Loved is a CHOICE.

So, what listed above may be flaws. Regardless of all the flaws, we still love the person the way they are. But, that is not a reason to be taken for granted. If insecurities occurs, then, we have to sit and talk.The more its prolonged, the worse the situation is. 

Okay, readers, to make it simple, PUSH ALL NEGATIVITIES ASIDE. Bring in all the POSITIVES! YES!

:)

Maybe I watched too many malay movies.... Okay.

Toodles!